...(contd.)
Very recently, the issue of somebody's marriage in my house had popped up. And the debate was already on about how and why that 'person-in-discussion' 's marriage was important.
I understand, you need a 'life-partner'. But that partner can be anything na...Your work, your hobby etc. Why only humans.
Coming to another good thought, I must acknowledge that people usually fall in love on their own. And later get married. So, yes, if they are falling together, let them fall...Later, they shall realize the pain. In many case, they might learn to adjust, as said before. But, if a person is happy on his own, why push him into holy matrimony?
It is quite ironical that such a post is coming from me- A daydreamer who is usually thinking of her would-be life after job, after marriage etc. But I have no experience at all. I still have to learn. Teenage and the third decade of a person's life, both are all about money and love! Not just 'ishq wala love' but every kind of love. And I am a new entrant in this phase of life. Ain't I?
So, I can always envisage my conjugal or professional life. At times, it feels super exciting to imagine my 'sweet little home'. With my kids and 'him' ;)
But there is also this feeling that I shall never be ready to abandon those two angels who had, long time back, envisaged 'me' in their 'sweet little home' vision. You know who I am talking of.
So,with such a confusion in mind, I might not ever be able to say a yes to marriage. In case, I find some one and 'fall' in love, I shall face the consequences my self. (That is in distant future)Wouldn't I? Why should the world push me for it.
In a similar manner, I believe, it is upto a person to decide whether or not he/she wants to bind himself/herself in 'holy matrimony'.
So, I come to the point again- Why should an already-trapped world care to arrange a cage for a free bird? Let him/her have his/her time.
Very recently, the issue of somebody's marriage in my house had popped up. And the debate was already on about how and why that 'person-in-discussion' 's marriage was important.
I understand, you need a 'life-partner'. But that partner can be anything na...Your work, your hobby etc. Why only humans.
Coming to another good thought, I must acknowledge that people usually fall in love on their own. And later get married. So, yes, if they are falling together, let them fall...Later, they shall realize the pain. In many case, they might learn to adjust, as said before. But, if a person is happy on his own, why push him into holy matrimony?
It is quite ironical that such a post is coming from me- A daydreamer who is usually thinking of her would-be life after job, after marriage etc. But I have no experience at all. I still have to learn. Teenage and the third decade of a person's life, both are all about money and love! Not just 'ishq wala love' but every kind of love. And I am a new entrant in this phase of life. Ain't I?
So, I can always envisage my conjugal or professional life. At times, it feels super exciting to imagine my 'sweet little home'. With my kids and 'him' ;)
But there is also this feeling that I shall never be ready to abandon those two angels who had, long time back, envisaged 'me' in their 'sweet little home' vision. You know who I am talking of.
So,with such a confusion in mind, I might not ever be able to say a yes to marriage. In case, I find some one and 'fall' in love, I shall face the consequences my self. (That is in distant future)Wouldn't I? Why should the world push me for it.
In a similar manner, I believe, it is upto a person to decide whether or not he/she wants to bind himself/herself in 'holy matrimony'.
So, I come to the point again- Why should an already-trapped world care to arrange a cage for a free bird? Let him/her have his/her time.
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